Let me start by saying this Virtual Six-Figure Mom Community is a safe space and in this safe space, I encourage each community member to acknowledge their feelings for what they are. We do not suppress our feelings and plaster on a happy face for each other. We feel all the things and give each other and ourselves grace. 

With that said, let's be real—there are days when the alarm feels like your nemesis and the thought of rolling out of bed and heading to work triggers all sorts of not-so-amazing feelings. If you're a working mom navigating this space, you're not alone. 

My hope with this particular blog post is that we explore the common sentiments around not liking your job while also providing you with actionable steps and journaling prompts to help you shift from feeling stuck to finding the spark that reignites your passion.

So let’s chat for a few minutes...

It's okay not to love your job every single day. I’ve been working for over 30 years (not for the same company) and there have been countless days when I absolutely did not love my job. I think back to my favorite employer/team/leader and there were a few days even there when I just didn’t love it. I didn’t even like it. It took everything in me to log in and get started some days. 

Start by acknowledging your feelings without judgment from the lens of your humanness. Can you even consider yourself a human if you always love your 8-5?? LOL!

Journaling prompt: What specific aspects of your job make you feel dissatisfied?

Understanding the root cause of your dissatisfaction is critical. We often talk about knowing your WHY in the positive sense, but it’s also important to understand WHY you aren’t feeling great about your current situation. 

Is it the nature of the work? 

The company culture? 

The leadership team? 

The lack of growth opportunities? 

It’s not enough to say you’re just not feeling it. What exactly about it doesn’t work for you?

Journaling prompt: If you could change one thing about your job right now, what would it be?

Revisit your career goals and aspirations. First, have you taken the time to put those in writing with a clear action plan? If you do nothing else before you close out of this browser window, grab a sheet of paper and WRITE YOUR CAREER GOALS. 

Are you aligning your current role with your long-term vision?

Need a gentle nudge in the right direction? Click HERE to put some time on my calendar.

Journaling prompt: Where do you see yourself professionally in the next two to three years and does your current job contribute to that vision?

My clients will tell you that I consistently remind them to focus on what they can control. While we all understand there are aspects beyond our control, identify areas where you can make a positive impact. Whether it's taking on new projects, initiating collaborations, or upskilling using platforms like LinkedIn Learning, Coursera, or many others, proactivity can be empowering. 

Journaling prompt: List three actions you can take in the next 30 days to improve your work situation.

Share your feelings with a trusted colleague, friend, mentor, or career coach. We can offer insights specific to your current situation and suggest realistic avenues for improvement. 

Journaling prompt: What advice would you give to a friend feeling the way you do about their job?

If your dissatisfaction persists, it might be time to seriously explore new opportunities. Is there a role or industry that aligns better with your passion and skills? 

This is not a step to be taken lightly, so my suggestion is to strongly consider step five before you dive into such exploration. 

Again, it's super easy to put some time on my calendar to chat and determine how I might be able to lend my 12+ years of recruiting/HR/coaching experience in support along your journey. The schedule is HERE.

Journaling prompt: What excites you about a potential new role or industry?

Ready to start peeling back some layers? 

Consider scheduling a VIP Intensive. This personalized session will provide expert insights, helping you align your career path with your goals. Whether you're seeking a career transformation or aiming for leadership roles, we've got you covered.

Click HERE to book your call today!

You’ve made it to the end of this post, so I’ll share this with you and only you…

I wrote this blog post for myself and I thank you for reading it. As I said, this community is a safe space and I took this opportunity to write something I've needed to read at various points in my career. My hope is that it blesses you in some way as well.

I’ll leave you with this…

As a fellow working mom who's been in the 'meh' moments from time to time, I understand the struggle. I also know that with the right guidance, you can turn these moments into stepping stones toward a fulfilling career. 

If you're ready to explore these opportunities and gain clarity on your career path, book a FREE 20-min Career Consultation with us. Let's embark on this journey together, rediscovering the joy and passion that your career can bring.